copy it to a memory card.....make sure to format the card in the phone and not in the computer, or use free software called bitpim. You will need a usb cable however.
there is a program that i used to use before it stopped working with my phone... maybe you will have better luck... it's called send-to-phone http://www.mobilatory.com/downloads/send-to-phone_setup.exe
try this site, i use it all the time!! Free Ringtones, Logos, Mobile Videos - FunForMobile it will still cost .25cents but it works
to remove all doubt from my thing - i fixed my issue... i had turned off my EV between the sumemr and when i tried it last so i just had to keep that on... for some reason i need to use "Verizon #2" as my network when I do it on my VX9800... other than that, it is free and easy to use... go for it (just make sure your EV is on